You meet a man on an occasion. A glimpse of you are interested, either because of his intelligence or other. But you are ashamed to introducing yourself first. Can women make initiative first?
By: Mochamad Yusuf*
You meet a man on an occasion. A glimpse of you are interested, either because of his handsome, body, intelligence, popularity, achievements, and speak or other way. But you are ashamed to introduce yourself first. Women can not make initiative first, “I’m not a seducer of women,” so you thought.
But he is indeed the rare man that once attracted attention. If not met, fear of losing the opportunity of a lifetime. Hehehe. Then allow the woman took first introduce? And how to tips?
Actually women’s all introduce first legitimate. No harm and no sin too. Hehehe. After all introduce to meet that does not mean you take a date?
With the familiar with him, there may be a positive influence for you, at least add to the your network. Especially if he has many accomplishments and strengths. Who knew he could pass on the success and greatness in you? So even if you are a woman’s partner was forbidden even introduce to meet a man first.
Here are 7 reasons that you are okay with him if the you make introduce first with a man:
1. Acquainted with him, will add to your more friends contacts. You do not know when we will ‘use him’, because either one time you could feel the benefits to meet him.
2. In one occasion, for example rigid in the airport lounge especially dentists, to talk with him will be far more fun than reading a novel (which actually you are lazy to read it). After all, nothing to lose, if then you are no longer interested him. Unless you have given your name card to him, maybe you are changing ‘hunted’.
3. You can relax, do not regret even managed to sleep nicely at night. With met him, you no longer intrigued him thinking about your feelings. Even treat you wonder who’s he really is.
4. You may not believe, that there are men who are lazy and allergy associated with women who seemed more intelligent and more confident. First introduced him, will break down the walls that his lazy.
5. You can become more confident in starting an acquaintance or friendship. Initiative was to make you become more powerful and interesting!
6. He did not feel awkward if you, a woman, knowing what you had done. During this, like it or not, there is a perception he is more superior, ‘bossy’. In reality, men like the woman who proactive, dynamic and optimistic.
7. Every woman should know also seemed to like and admire, and not only loved and admired. Not true?
Good luck. Hopefully this short tips are useful. [TSA, 14/1/2010 at dawn]
*Mochamad Yusuf is a senior IT consultant, public speaker, radio host, lecturer and website & software developer at SAM Design, http://www.samdesign.com. Actively writing and his books have been published, “99 Jurus Sukses Mengembangkan Bisnis Lewat Internet”. You can follow his activities on his personal website, http://m.yusuf.web.id, or in his profile Facebook, http://www.facebook.com/mochyusuf.